I happened to be afraid that when my partner developed feelings for another person, their emotions for me personally would diminish.

I happened to be afraid that when my partner developed feelings for another person, their emotions for me personally would diminish.

But love and intimacy aren’t finite resources.

But closeness and love aren’t finite resources. A lot like just just how having a 2nd son or daughter doesn’t allow you to be love the initial one any less. In reality, many individuals in polyamorous relationships — including myself — discover that being with another person only makes you appreciate your spouse much more. And undoubtedly so it’s only a little impractical you may anticipate emotions won’t develop from a relationship that is intimate. Continue reading